Jakarta -NETTInpo.Com In the modern era, where almost everything is carefully planned—from careers and investments to marriage—there remains one thing that stays beyond human control: love.

This idea was expressed by Dr. Fahruddin Faiz, who emphasized that love is not something that can be engineered by logic or programmed according to human will. According to him, a person may carefully design a marriage—choosing the right time, selecting a partner, and preparing financial stability. However, love itself does not arise merely from planning.

“Love is something that grows naturally. It comes without being commanded and often appears unexpectedly,” captures the essence of this view.

This perspective serves as a reminder that marriage and love are two different things. Marriage is a decision built on commitment, responsibility, and readiness to share life together. Meanwhile, love is an inner experience that grows spontaneously and cannot be forced.

In real life, many couples enter marriage based on rational considerations, yet need time for love to develop. On the other hand, there are also many deep love stories that never lead to marriage due to various circumstances.

This reflection highlights that humans have the power to plan their life paths, but do not have full control over where their hearts will ultimately belong. Here, love reveals its most human nature: it arrives without invitation and sometimes leaves without notice.

Dr. Fahruddin Faiz’s message becomes a contemplation that happiness in relationships is not only determined by the strength of feeling, but also by the readiness to carry responsibility once love has found its place. Marriage can be designed with reason, but love remains the language of the heart that does not always follow human will.